Friendships are Important

Tessie

Social interaction is important for both humans and dogs. We’re social creatures who crave connection. Mala (my sister) is my best friend because she likes to play rough just like me, and we spend all of our time together. But I have other relationships too. Mateo (our male cat) enjoys playing with me, grooming me, and hanging out next to me during our parents’ TV time. Sometimes, he gets a little annoyed with my overzealous manner of play and lets me know with his claws – those things are sharp.

My other closest friend is Cody, my foster brother. He raised me for the first several weeks when I moved from Texas to Colorado. I was just a puppy then, so he made quite an impression on me. Cody has sleepovers at our house when his parents are traveling, and Mala and I go to stay with him when our parents take trips that don’t include us. Cody just stayed over with us for almost a whole week!

I’m not the greatest at sharing my toys with Cody, but I love having him around. It’s fun to go on hikes together and hang out in the sun on the deck. I get so excited when we go to his house. I know the turn on the road before we get there, and I start barking before we can even see the house. I’m thrilled to jump out of the car and go in search of my buddy. When he comes here, I get to run outside and greet him and check out the car that he rode over in.

Friendships are important for humans and dogs. Having someone you trust and like to spend time with makes life more fun. Positive relationships are good for your health and happiness. Unfortunately, loneliness and social isolation have become major health problems in our society. I recommend spending time with your friends to nurture the relationships you already have and seeking out ways to interact with others by joining a group, club, or class related to your interests. May you find a friend as great as mine!